Love

While reminiscing on past relationships, I stumbled upon what I think is a really great philosophy as to why we (mostly talking about girls) fall in and out of love so quickly. It's average, but end's up being embarrassing when we declare we love this guy and he is just amazing, maybe even confessing potential marriage ideas. This tends to happen over and over. And usually, after awhile, you can't even remember why you dated a person or "loved" them. I believe this is because that person is fulfilling some sort of need and when your needs change or that person stops meeting those needs, you move on to someone who does. It feels like love because you feel fulfillment, and that tends to be the main characteristic of the "love feeling." I believe this is true of even married couples, and maybe why so many end up in divorce, because needs aren't being met.

The difference in all your boyfriends and the man you are to marry, is that, that man never stops meeting your needs. He adjusts and pays close attention to how full your love tank is and any sort of change. He is truly connected to you not only physically, but emotionally. That, I believe is the difference and what could save marriages if it were applied.

Guys, if you apply this to your wife, fiance, or girlfriend, she will (should) do the same thing in return. Human's are creatures of example, and she will follow your lead and want to become as good of a spouse as you are.

This what my philosophical moment for today =) lol